The Piano Man

TIP A STREET PERFORMER

When I lived in New York, passing a street performer was more common than passing a Sabrett hot dog stand…and sometimes just as fragrant!  Just as you get to know your local hot dog chef, you begin to familiarize yourself with each street performer’s “shtick.”  Forgive me; I had to throw a little Yiddish in there to get you in the New York state of mind.

Amazing musicians, dog tricksters, space scene spray painters and silver covered “robots” with freaky masks delivering “coin-operated” break dance moves were scattered throughout the train stations and tourist areas with the occasional BEER MONEY or GOD BLESS YOU taped to their tip jars.

In Florida, we are not blessed to have so much free entertainment available on the streets; however, our movie theater parking garage shares its real estate with our local Piano Man.  You can always count on him to play one of his seven songs, repeating the same verse over and over again, making up the words as he goes along, trying to hit the high notes which are clearly out of his range.  You can also count on the locals exchanging looks with furrowed brows in an effort to get affirmation that “those aren’t the words to that song.”  And you can always count on my husband getting a dollar out of his pocket to give to my son to put in his tip bucket.

Brooks gets to tickle the ivories between songs!

Brooks gets to tickle the ivories between songs!

You are supposed to take care of your family and over the years, our Piano Man has become family.  We count on him to be there.  He provides a sense of familiarity and community.  He loves what he does and puts a smile on our faces.  And he counts on us to put a dollar in his bucket.  We take care of each other.  An off-tune hollah deserves at least a dollah!

TIP A STREET PERFORMER When I lived in New York, passing a street performer was more common than passing a Sabrett hot d...

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Good or Great?

Do you want to be Good or Great?  Years ago, my mentor asked me to read Good to Great by Jim Collins, which introduced the concept that most companies settle for being ‘good’ and never make it to ‘great.’  It states that the goal is to be GREAT.  Duh!

Which would you rather be…good or great?  I am reminded of the recent AT&T commercials stating “It’s Not Complicated” where the host interviews children about basic questions such as which is better: doing two things at once…fast or slow?  One could argue that it’s not complicated when it comes to which is better…good or great?  Great, of course…right?  I would argue that it depends on how you define “good.”  As a self-proclaimed Platonist, I believe that goodness is intrinsic virtue; hence, the end goal is to BE morally just through our character rather than simply DO good deeds.  Good is the ultimate goal.

This weekend, I was reminded of this when our family went to see Oz The Great and Powerful.  It is amazing what you can learn from a movie that was panned by the critics.  Go see it with the kids and be prepared for some bad acting by Mila Kunis (whose name just sounds like a dirty word to me).  The message, however, is excellent.  While we strive for greatness, we lose sight of the fact that what matters is goodness.  It’s more about WHO we are that WHAT we do.  Maybe we should all focus on being great at being good.

Do you want to be Good or Great?  Years ago, my mentor asked me to read Good to Great by Jim Collins, which introduced t...

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It’s That Time of Year

Val, a guy I went to high school with “back in the day,” allowed his daughter to use his Facebook account to solicit his “friends” to buy Girl Scout cookies.  While he lives in a small community in the East Bay of San Francisco and I live in Florida, there are still opportunities to do a little e-commerce transaction.  Once a Girl Scout, always a Girl Scout…so each year I buy cookies even though my scale begs otherwise.  This year, I thought it would be great to support Val’s daughter (as a reward since she used social media to increase her sales…smart girl) and surprise my step-mother who lives in Val’s town, a teacher at his local middle school.  Next week, he and Kaleigh will be delivering 10 boxes of cookies to the school – 6 Thin Mints, 2 Samoas and 2 Trefoils, compliments of her grandson on the East Coast.  Who doesn’t love a little Girl Scout goodness?  What is your favorite Girl Scout cookie?  Mine is definitely the Samoa.  I can wipe out a whole box faster than you can say “Carbohydrates!”

Val, a guy I went to high school with "back in the day," allowed his daughter to use his Facebook account to solicit his...

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Buying Time

FILL A METER

They are a necessary evil…the hated meter-reader. Downtown St. Petersburg is one of the easiest places in the world (no exaggeration) to get a ticket. It is as if the meter maids magically appear the SECOND a meter expires in true Star Trek fashion…beamed right to the vehicle. Today, as I walked to my acupuncture appointment, I noticed a car parked in a handicap spot that had an expired meter. Clearly it did not belong to a Millennial as it was the size of the Starship Enterprise and the front seat was full of reading glasses, Kleenex and Tums. I pictured a gentleman in his 70′s coming out of the ice cream shop (paid for by his Social Security) to find a ticket loving placed on his windshield by Meter Reader Kirk. As the meter flashed 0:00, it struck me that there are opportunities to show small gestures of Jenerosity everywhere. Brooks and I filled the meter and left a note wishing him a great day. Maybe we should have told him to ‘Live Long and Prosper.’

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FILL A METER They are a necessary evil...the hated meter-reader. Downtown St. Petersburg is one of the easiest places in...

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Sweet Hearts

BRING THEM DONUTS

If you are like me, you may think that Valentines Day is just a Hallmark holiday. It costs a lot of money, makes people who are single feel inadequate and adds some pounds to the midsection. But, Valentines Day doesn’t just have to be for lovers. It can be viewed as an opportunity to show people who help us everyday how much we love them. And there is no better way than by giving the gift of heart-shaped brownie batter-filled Dunkin’ Donuts. Oh yeah, baby! Today, Brooks delivered 11 to his school’s office for the administration. One managed to get “lost” along the way…hmmmm…

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BRING THEM DONUTS If you are like me, you may think that Valentines Day is just a Hallmark holiday. It costs a lot of mo...

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