Category: General Jenerosity

What Is Jenerosity?

Recently, I was discussing Jenerosity with a group of friends. We got to discussing the topic of Love, the “International Language” and came to the conclusion that Jenerosity is the “International Currency.” No matter where your travels take you, you can always share a smile, extend courtesy and contribute to the community around you. No matter where you go, you will always get more by giving more. Jenerosity is a gift to those around you, but a bigger gift to yourself. Get happy…give more!

Recently, I was discussing Jenerosity with a group of friends. We got to discussing the topic of Love, the "Internationa...

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Cash Is King

Jenerosity is a wonderful thing, but it has to be meaningful in order for it to be worthwhile. Today, there is an article about the overwhelming donations of used clothes pouring into Oklahoma. While that sounds great, the people in need don’t even have closets!

One thing I have learned from working at the food bank is that cash is king when it comes to charitable giving. For example, in our region, the food bank can turn $1 into 7 meals. If I were to go to the grocery store to buy $1 worth of food to donate, I might walk out with 2 boxes of Mac and Cheese if there is a BOGO offer. What I would spend in gas to get that food to the food bank is probably more than what I would spend on the food alone. Instead, it would make more sense to get online and donate that dollar. Let the experts source the food and provide much more to the community. BONUS: Take the ambiguity out of an IRS audit also.

Bottom line…while you may think those jeans from 2002 are valuable in Oklahoma, they really aren’t. Donate them locally and text REDCROSS to 90999 to donate $10.

Same logic applies to wedding gifts. Buy something from the registry that the couple wants/needs or send cash…unless you are willing to send an original Van Gogh. I might consider getting married again for that!

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The Lighthouse Project

The most challenging project I had to complete as a child was our fourth grade California Mission replica.  I had to visit Mission Santa Barbara, take photos and rebuild it to scale using some materials that were not so easy for a fourth grader to apply.  My mom and I agonized over it for weeks and she finally helped me bust it out over a couple of LATE nights.

My son is in fourth grade and it seems that regardless of which coast you reside on, big projects exist at this grade level.  His assignment was to create a model of the Alligator Reef Lighthouse near the Florida Keys using 50% recyclable materials.  It was due today.  After the usual two weeks of agonizing over it and two weekends out of town, we found ourselves making the required trip to the craft store earlier in the week and attempting to assemble it all last night.  But, guess what?  This working mom has a job and I had to head to a business mixer to represent my organization last night.  Luckily, I live down the street from The Hesslers, a family full of inventive boys who fix the neighborhood’s broken items, build underwater dock lights and are often seen blowing things up in the front yard.  Working women, especially those of us in fundraising roles, know that the key to success is utilizing your network.  So, at 6:00 Brooks arrived at the neighbors house to have the boys “oversee” the construction of his project.

Alex the Engineer helps Brooks construct his lighthouse JUST IN TIME!  We love our neighbors!

Alex the Engineer helps Brooks construct his lighthouse JUST IN TIME! We love our neighbors!

When I arrived at 8:30, it was near completion and was much more AMAZING than anything I could have delivered…working lights and all!  Of course parents were encouraged to participate as minimally as possible, so I accomplished that by delegating (and paying out some “babysitting” dollars).  Today, my son beamed as he brought in his lighthouse, created alongside some of the cool “big boys” of the neighborhood.  $100 in supplies & fees later, along with a lesson in resource utilization, I must admit that I was happy to have gotten out of the delivery phase.  It truly was a gift to myself!

The most challenging project I had to complete as a child was our fourth grade California Mission replica.  I had to vis...

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I Like _______.

What a great idea!  Check out I Like Giving.  This organization calls people to action and allows them to share their stories (big and small) to, in turn, encourage others to be Jenerous.  They have a 3-Day Giving Experience that you can sign up for online.  For the next three days, they will email you a daily giving challenge to complete.  I will keep you posted on my progress. For example, I really like this idea of dropping bills with positive words of encouragement attached.  Maybe in a park where homeless people tend to gather, or near a school in a low income area?

Some people have criticized those who post acts of Jenerosity online as not Christian or self-promoting.  I have struggled with that as well, as I respect the authentic Jenerosity behind anonymous giving; however, I believe that the power to make significant change by motivating others into action, more often than not, outweighs the perceived arrogance of public acknowledgement.  What is your take?

What a great idea!  Check out I Like Giving.  This organization calls people to action and allows them to share their st...

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Fancy Pants

CLEAN OUT YOUR CLOSET & DONATE

I clean out my closet every 6 months, but now that my house is on the market, my husband and I both had to thin it down significantly. In a prior post, I referred to my better half as Hector the Collector. As you may imagine, he has collected NUMEROUS polo shirts with embroidered resort logos over the years since he works in the hospitality industry. Many of these shirts still had the tags on them. We accumulated quite a pile of dressy and upscale casual apparel in ‘very good’ to ‘excellent’ condition to donate.

Us women have Dress for Success, which provides business clothes to disadvantaged women who are trying to succeed in the business world. But what about men? I searched online and found a local organization, Florida Resurrection House, which distributes business attire to men in need. Career Gear is another great organization serving 7 states. While I support donating to the Salvation Army and Goodwill, it is nice to know that dress clothes are being given directly to those who really need them most.

So, Ladies…call to action: Get your man to clean out his closet and donate those clothes to someone who needs a second chance. This tax season, I am reminded that write-offs come in quite handy also!

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CLEAN OUT YOUR CLOSET & DONATE I clean out my closet every 6 months, but now that my house is on the market, my husb...

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